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I'm sorry that this is becoming a regular bitch fest but here goes again. This time it's about my sister.

This past Tuesday my two aunts deicded to take my Grandma off life support. My sister went to tell me and she told me to sit down and I told her that I didn't want to. She told me not to start my stuff so I went in the house because I'm not going to let her be like that to me. She said that I had an attitude because I told her that I didn't want to sit down. She came in and started with me, telling my dad that I felt guilty about not going to see my Grandma while she was in the hosptail....She didn't even know why I didn't go to see her while she was there. It's because after I saw my one cousin in the hosptial hooked up to stuff I don't go to see anyone in the hosptail when I know they are hooked up to stuff. Not only that if I felt guilty I would have went to visit her. Then she started with me about my dad not taking my money. He told me to stop mooching off of my dad and get a job. I'm trying to get one and it's not the fact that I don't have a job it's the fact he won't take my money. Not only that, that's between my dad and I. She just needs to butt out of that because as far as I'm concerned it's not her business. I guess when she got home that night she called my mom (who I don't talk to and haven't for a few months and I don't want to talk to her) and tells her that I'm not okay so I get a call from my mom at 11pm. I just told her I was fine. I called my sister and told her thanks for the concern but that wasn't the right thing to do because you know I'm not talking to her and I have my reasons for not talking to her and I don't want to talk to her.

The lastest is that I find out that my sister is telling my dad that he should take the downstairs and I should stay upstairs. That's a good idea expect two things. I can't afford it because I don't have a job right now and my dad can't afford to live down there by himself.

I know she means well but the way she goes about things isn't the right way to deal with things. I'm tired of my sister butting her nose in where it's not wanted or needed, judging stuff without knowing everything that's going on, and talking down to me like I'm one of her kids, I have one mom that's enough for me.

posted by musicfreak10578 @ 10:37 AM